Some clients expose their weariness of the social tendency to say things just to say them. Insincerity. The words may be polite. They’re acceptable sayings – like a ritual. A way to avoid and keep moving. I suppose we all do it to some degree, but what about in your marriage? Marriage represents the most […]
When Normal Is an Illusion
“Normal is an illusion. What’s normal for the spider🕷 is chaos for the fly.” (Anonymous) What in this picture resonates most with you? I think about couples caught in their own tangled web of relating – or non-relating. Couples often ask, can you help us? Yes! That is what I love to do – help […]
Move the Chains! not just cheering for your team’s yardage to the end-zone…
May any “not a football fan” readers bear with me…give me a break for my first blog post. I’ve gotten into the NFL beyond normal this year, so I’m going with it. The field chains mark the spot where a new set of chances are obtained – they mark the minimum yards required before new […]



