Some clients expose their weariness of the social tendency to say things just to say them. Insincerity. The words may be polite. They’re acceptable sayings – like a ritual. A way to avoid and keep moving. I suppose we all do it to some degree, but what about in your marriage? Marriage represents the most […]
When Normal Is an Illusion
“Normal is an illusion. What’s normal for the spider🕷 is chaos for the fly.” (Anonymous) What in this picture resonates most with you? I think about couples caught in their own tangled web of relating – or non-relating. Couples often ask, can you help us? Yes! That is what I love to do – help […]
How to Tell Someone Your Boundaries
So, you’ve decided that it’s time to set some boundaries in your life. Good for you! Boundaries assist to build trust and respect in relationships. Others who ignore, mock, and consistently overstep boundaries likely are self-serving (relational bullies) and lack authentic interest in a mutually satisfying relationship with you. (You may need to re-read that […]